“90% of messages consists of nothing more than ‘hey’ or ‘snapchat?’ or some copy-pasted bullshit about how he's seen a lot of girls at this site “but you're definitely the most beautiful!” No kidding, I've gotten this exact same message from multiple guys who I guess just mass-sent it out and forgot they even had talked to me earlier.” For women, too, the online dating experience can – as one female Reddit user noted with a touch of justifiable exasperation: And, in fact, this experience isn’t exactly atypical: having to send dozens upon dozens of message just to get one response is a common experience for men on dating sites and apps. Rub your eyes in disbelief all you want, but there’s a dude somewhere who had to contact 600 women online just to land 5 dates.